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Saturday, April 25, 2009

Hard Work!!!


Man, relationships are work. I guess I'm writing this because I expected things to just flow and we just roll with the punches as they come. But I've found out that it takes more than just you liking someone to maintain healthy relationship. They're are gonna be good times and times. You're gonna get on each other nerves and argue sometimes. But it's all about how handle those situations. That's what makes or breaks the relationship.


After the honeymoon phase of things I think that my gal (I know that sounds country right?) and I have finally hit the real phase of our relationship. The little quirks the we once thought were cute can get a tad bit annoying at times. We're still searching to find ourselves and trying get to know each other at the same time. Though, we've known each other for 2 years we still find out new stuff every day about one another. With that being said of course there are gonna conflicts every now and then because we're still growing, individually and together.


I really do love this chick. Even if we weren't in a relationship I would still love her because we were close friends for a year and a half before we got together. Even though I feel this way I know that it takes way more than that to maintain the kind of relationship that we both want. It takes patience, compromise, communication, trust, respect. We're both only 19 so we're not fully there in some categories. (Well mostly me: Hey I'm workin' on it!) But I know that over time we'll get there.
Say fam I'm gonna have to cut this a little short 'cause I gotta headache from these new glasses...dueces

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